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Finding The Right Lube For You

By Brad Berrigan on February 6th, 2010

They say that first impressions count, so when you make an entrance through the backdoor, you want it to be memorable for all the right reasons and not the wrong reasons. Anal sex can be painful, particularly if you aren’t prepared, so this article will introduce you to some of the different kinds of lubricants available to help you find the right kind of lube. There are many brands and types of personal lubricants available, which can make the process of choosing the right lube confusing, so hopefully what you read here will help make this choice easier for you.

When you are experiencing bareback sex, the right amount of lubricant is important to keep things moving smoothly. Try not to use too much lubricant first up, just apply some on the outside of the anus if you are the bottom, then put some on your finger and smear this inside the anus. The top needs to apply a suitable amount of lubrication to his penis and then you are all set. You may need to apply more lubricant during intercourse, as some lubricants dry out over time. If you apply too much lubricant at the beginning, then you may lose the sensation, making it difficult to feel anything, but if you don’t add enough, then this could cause too much friction, which could be a painful experience for the bottom. It’s better to add a small amount and then go from there and remember that communication is the key to achieving a good rhythm and good sex.

If you intend to use a condom rather than have bareback sex, lubricant plays an important role also, as lubricants can help keep condoms in good working order. By applying a condom-safe lubricant such as water-based or silicone-based lubricant to the outside of the condom, you reduce the friction and decrease the chance of condom breakage. Adding a small amount of lubricant to the tip of your penis before applying the condom may provide the top with a better sensation. If you are barebacking, then the right kind of lubricant and the right amount is also important with friction control, because establishing a good amount of friction is important for both the top and the bottom.

There are some things to remember when using condoms, such as adding a few drops inside the tip of the condom to increase the level of sensation. Be careful not to add too much lubricant though, as this may cause the condom to slip off. Be sure to use only water-based or silicone-based lubricants, as oil-based lubricants such as Vaseline, baby oil, vegetable oil, massage oil or body lotion can damage the strength of the condom, which could result in condom breakage. Some lubricants can also cause allergies, but there are now a number of products on the market which are organic or low allergenic and they may be a good choice for anyone who experiences allergies with certain types of lubricants.

All lubricants have a main goal of providing a slippery coating to the penis to help make sex more comfortable. Even though lubricants all have a similar goal, there are a number of different types of lubricants on the market designed to do things a little differently. There are basic lubricants to help a penis slide more comfortably inside the anus, but some offer additional features, such as providing muscle relaxants, a heating sensation and some are made from organic ingredients for those looking for lubricants which are more natural. Here is some information about the main types of lubricants which are currently available.

Anal lubricants and sprays are designed specifically for anal sex, as the name suggests and many contain an ingredient called benzocaine; an agent which numbs the anal area to help provide a more comfortable experience. This helps the sphincter muscle relax, resulting in reduced pain during penetration and a more enjoyable sexual experience. You need to be aware that lubricants containing benzocaine will numb all body parts they come into contact with, including a penis. Some anal-specific lubricants have a herbal base, which don’t have an anesthetic effect.

Oil-based lubricants consist of a petroleum base similar to Vaseline or vegetable base depending on the type of lubricant. Although long lasting, these lubricants are not safe to use with most condoms. The ingredients in these lubricants can weaken latex and cause condoms to break down. These lubricants may be used with polyurethane condoms, although oil-based lubricants are harder to clean up afterward, so be careful with your amounts. Oil-based lubricants tend to offer a thicker consistency which reduces friction, which is important because the anus does not provide any moisturizing properties. The thicker properties may provide a longer lasting experience, which can continue well beyond the time of intimacy and can be difficult to clean up afterwards.

Sexual enhancement lubricants are designed to enhance sexual function by increasing nitric oxide production in the targeted area. The sexual stimulation causes a local release of nitric oxide, resulting in smooth muscle relaxation and inflow of blood to the corpus cavernosum. This results in higher concentrations of nitric oxide boosting erection quality by further dilating the blood vessels of penile erection tissue. You need to refer to the product manufacturer for further information relating to compatibility of each product with condoms.

Silicone-based lubricants are similar to water-based lubricants, in that they are safe to use with most condoms, but not all may be, so you need to be aware of this. Silicone-based lubricants, because they do not contain water, do not dry up the same way water-based lubricants do. A few drops of silicone-based lubricant will usually last all night, even under water. You need to be aware that silicone-based lubricant is not recommended for use with silicone-based toys, as the lubricants can dissolve the surface of the toys, making them sticky, where they can slowly disintegrate.

Warming lubricants contain special ingredients to provide a heating sensation to the skin. The heating takes place when the lubricant comes into contact with the skin and adds a unique element to anal sex. If you breathe on warming lubricant, it can increase the heating effect. The main ingredient in warming lubricant is glycerin and other ingredients are propylene glycol, alcohol and can even contain herbal extracts or chilli peppers. Warming lubricants can be water-based or silicone-based and can be used for massage or for sexual activity.

Water-based lubricants are water soluble and based on a formula that includes 90% de-ionized water. Water-based lubricants are the most widely available type of lubricant on the market and are safe for use with condoms, they are non-toxic and can be re-activated with regular water should they start to dry up. Water-based lubricants can be given flavors, colors, and scents. Water-based lubricants are the most similar to the natural lubricants of the human body.

Now that you have been introduced to the variety of lubricants on the market, you might like to experiment with some of them to see which ones feel best for you. This article has been designed to introduce you to the various types of lubricants available, but ingredients and notes about individual products have not been discussed here. It’s important to carefully read the manufacturers product information relating to the best uses and warnings which may apply, as lubricants can differ with their consistency, ingredients and purpose.

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Sometimes You May Need To Use A Condom

By Brad Berrigan on January 30th, 2010

This website is probably the last place you would have expected to see an article about condoms, but there are some situations where you might decide to use a condom and this article has been designed for these situations. This will possibly be the first and last time a condom article will appear here, but there are some useful points here which barebackers may be interested in reading about when it comes to condoms. If you completely avoid using condoms in your life, you may want to skip this article and move to one which you may find more suitable.

Many barebackers enjoy the freedom of not using condoms because of the intimacy, sensation and pleasure that condom-free sex can bring, but sometimes sexually transmitted infections can become an issue and a concern. If you are ever in a situation where you are about to engage in bareback sex with a guy, when you discover that one or both of you have a sexually transmitted infection, then you both need to make a decision about whether to proceed. You may both decide to have bareback sex together, you may both decide not to engage in sexual activity at all or you may both decide to use a condom in this instance to reduce the possibility of transmitting or contracting a sexually transmitted infection.

If you both make a choice to have sex using a condom, there are a number of things you can do to make the experience feel as natural as possible, in an attempt to replicate the sensation of bareback sex. Because condoms are designed to be a barrier for sexually transmitted infections and as a contraceptive device, you are unable to use a condom correctly and swap bodily fluids with each other. It may be possible to increase the level of sensation to create a more realistic feel by taking a few steps which are discussed here.

The type of condom you choose can make an enormous difference to the sensation you experience if you use a condom for anal sex. If you want to learn more about condoms, then Wikipedia is an excellent source of information, including extensive information about the history of condoms, their purpose and also the different types of condoms available. This particular article will be discussing the male condom specifically, which is applied to the penis, rather than the female (or reality) condom, which is inserted inside the partner. It is important to remember that condoms are not 100% effective in reducing sexually transmitted infections, but they do give a higher level of protection than sex without a condom.

When choosing a condom, there are a number of factors to consider. If sensation is an important issue to you, then you may decide to use condoms which are thinner or labelled “sensitive”, “thin”, “maximum pleasure” or something similar. Usually the thinner condoms allow more sensation, but there may be a risk of damage when using thinner condoms and having rough sex without adequate lubrication, so the use of an appropriate lubricant is important. Remember that oil based lubricants can damage some types of condoms, so you need to check that the lubricant you use with condoms is condom-compatible.

Many adult shops or online stores have a category or option to help you select the right kind of condom to suit your particular needs. The type of condom you select is probably the most important aspect of increasing the level of sensation. The thicker the condom, the less sensation you are likely to get. Latex condoms can sometimes cause allergic reactions, but there are other condoms made of synthetic materials such as polyurethane and polyisoprene, which may be less allergenic. You do need to be careful with some condoms, such as lambskin condoms, which are made from sheep intestines. Lambskin condoms can be marketed as being natural and less allergenic than latex, but because lambskin condoms consist of porous material thought to be large enough to allow infectious agents to pass through while blocking sperm, they should not be used.

Another step you can take to increase the sensation is to add a small amount of lubricant to the tip of your penis or the reservoir of the condom, as this can heighten the sensation the top experiences while he is thrusting inside and out of the anal passage. It’s important not to place too much lubricant inside the condom, because this could lead to the condom slipping off during sexual intercourse. Also be aware of condoms lubricated with a spermicidal chemical called nonoxynol-9. Recent studies have found that with frequent use, this chemical may increase the risk of HIV transmission, because it can cause skin irritations to the rectum and expose the body to sexually transmitted infections.

While it may be difficult to replicate the experience of bareback sex using condoms, these are a few things you can do to help increase the sensation for yourself and your partner. It’s important to remember that condom usage requires care. You need to use the right type of condoms (studded condoms for example can result in damage to the rectum), incorrect lubricant can damage the condom, nonoxynol-9 lubricated condoms can cause skin irritations, lambskin condoms can still result in the transmission of sexually transmitted infections and even if you use a condom, this does not result in complete protection from sexually transmitted infections.

Important: This article has been designed to look at ways barebackers might consider using condoms in some situations, but this article does not extensively discuss how to correctly use condoms or the effectiveness of condom usage. For this reason, please ensure that you research this information using online resources or information from your local health department to ensure that you are familiar with condoms.

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Lemon Juice And Sexual Health Study

By Brad Berrigan on January 23rd, 2010

Several years ago, a discovery was made relating to the use of lemon juice as a possible barrier for the transmission of HIV and some sexually transmitted infections. This discovery was made by Professor Roger Short of the University of Melbourne, Australia. A research team was established and the project LemonAIDS was developed. I have been following their work with interest, but since the initial discovery, further studies have been undertaken by other researchers and some contradictions now exist to the effectiveness of lemon juice.

The use of lemon juice to prevent sexually transmitted infections is questionable based on outcomes from various researchers, but I thought I would include some of the research here to help stimulate thought about nature possibly being a useful ingredient to reduce sexually transmitted infections. The LemonAIDS project findings have not been updated at their website for some time and the section relating to lemon juice was last reviewed in 2004.

Researchers from the University of Melbourne found test tube laboratory tests showed that lemon juice had the ability to destroy both HIV and sperm. The tests and research were based on heterosexual sex, where the main concerns were relating to issues about whether the acidity of the lemon juice would pose problems for the vagina. As the research did not include men or the rectum, it is unknown whether lemon juice may assist in creating a barrier for sexually transmitted infections during anal sex.

Historically, there are references to lemon juice being used as a contraception by women in the Mediterranean before more modern methods came into existence. Some cultures have been known to use lemon juice as a contraception method and to also prevent the transmission of some sexually transmitted infections. In examining lemon juice and its effectiveness to block some sexually transmitted infections, researchers found that the acidity of lemons does have the ability to inactivate sperm and HIV. Later findings by other researchers has found that the acidity at certain levels can cause damage and lesions to the vagina.

If it can be proven that lemon juice is an effective barrier for HIV transmission, then this would be an amazing breakthrough. Lemons are available in a large part of the world and are rather inexpensive to purchase, meaning that many people could have access to the fruit. Lemon juice is also known as an excellent cleaning application, which could also be used as a cleansing agent after sexual intercourse. It would also be interesting if a natural fruit was found to be useful in assisting those wanting to engage in sexual intercourse without the use of other forms of protection such as condoms.

I have researched lemon juice and its use for possibly providing protection during sexual intercourse and found that there really isn’t a great deal of information available on the subject. I am unsure whether this is because the use of lemon juice as a potential sexually transmitted infection barrier has not yet been proven to be effective. The issue of whether companies could patent, manufacture and distribute a product for monetary gain may also be a factor, considering that lemons can be grown by just about anyone or sourced from the local supermarket.

The following is a list of some of the observations made by Professor Roger Short from the University of Melbourne at the time the initial discovery was made:

  • The effects of 20 percent lemon juice on HIV in culture is that it kills the virus very quickly.
  • Concentration of 20% lemon juice in a fresh human ejaculate irreversibly immobilizes 100% of spermatozoa in less than 30 seconds.
  • It would be necessary to use only about 3ml of lemon juice in the vagina to inactivate HIV and sperm.
  • Neat lemon juice applied to the vagina, or the penis and foreskin is not in any way painful to the user if no lesions are present.
  • Citric acid, which gives lemon juice its acidity is also a normal component of a man’s ejaculate, so it’s not a foreign substance to the body.
  • Lemon juice might also be very useful for post-coital washing of the penis, particularly the foreskin, to protect men from HIV infection.
  • If lemons are in short supply, lime juice would be a good alternative.
  • Lemon juice killed HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia in the test tube.

It is important to note that these findings were the initial findings and that further research is still required to ascertain whether the use of lemon juice as a preventative for the spread of sexually transmitted infections is effective. Another important issue is that the research refers to women and the vagina, not to men and the rectum. For this reason, it’s important to just consider the findings, rather than applying the preliminary findings to your personal life at this time. I say this, because further research undertaken by researchers has found that lemon juice can cause lesions in the vagina and as a result, this can cause higher exposure to sexually transmitted infections because of the broken skin.

Skin is very important in helping prevent viruses from entering the bloodstream, because it is our body’s barrier, so when the skin becomes broken from lesions, wounds or sores, the skin is no longer in tact and is less able to help protect us from external health concerns. To find out more about the Lemon and AIDS research and the work of the LemonAIDS team, please visit their official website.

This is a fascinating issue which I will continue to follow and report here if any significant findings become known. To complete this article, I have found a number of other researchers who have different findings to that of Professor Roger Short and his team, who found that the effects of 20 percent lemon juice on HIV in culture kills the virus very quickly. Here are some snippets from the Science and Development Network website:

  • Carol Lackman-Smith of the Southern Research Institute, United States, presented data at a conference showing that 50 per cent solutions of the juices damaged the cells that line the vagina.
  • Anke Hemmerling of the University of Berkeley presented results suggesting that weaker dilutions of 10-20 per cent cause little, if any, damage to the lining of the vagina.
  • Robin Shattock of Imperial College in the United Kingdom has shown that in the presence of sperm, anything weaker than a 50 per cent solution of juice does not efficiently inactivate HIV.

One of the most recent articles I found was at an excellent HIV health resource called The Body. The article Why Women Should NOT Use Lemon or Lime Juice as a Microbicide is an interesting read and brings together some of the most recent information available about lemon juice. So from the latest findings, lemon juice should not be used as a HIV or sexually transmitted infection technique at this time, as there is a chance that lesions could result, which could actually increase the chance of contracting a sexually transmitted infection because of the potential of broken skin.

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Thoughts About Making Bareback Sex Safer

By Brad Berrigan on January 16th, 2010

The idea behind this article is to inspire thought by considering ways which might help make bareback sex a somewhat safer experience for men who have chosen to have bareback sex with other men. This article has been created for the purpose of thinking about barebacking and ways to help reduce health risks and is designed for men who have already made the decision to incorporate bareback sex into their personal lives. Please understand that this article should not be used as a set of HIV prevention guidelines and professional advice needs to be sought prior to acting on anything discussed here.

Choosing the right person to have bareback sex with
To lower your health risks, barebacking with a monogamous partner is one way to help achieve this outcome. If you and your partner have established a strong level of trust and you are both free of sexually transmitted infections, then you have a good understanding about the risks involved. The problem with this idea is that if either partner ventures off to have unprotected sex with other men, then the level of trust is diminished and the level of risk increases.

If you are not living in a monogamous relationship, or if you live in an open relationship, then you may consider exploring sexual adventures with other people. If you can establish trust with another person, such as an exclusive fuck buddy, then this may be a relatively safe option, providing that the buddy you choose is also healthy and that he only has unprotected sex with yourself. You need to remember that trust is a very big part of this process and while you might trust the other person, they may not be trustworthy. If one of you decides to have sex outside the fuck buddy arrangement, then the level of risk increases.

Taking good care of your body
Good health through exercise and diet can assist with keeping your immune system in optimum condition. This can be beneficial if your body is subjected to a virus or health risk, because it may give your body stronger resistance (but this is not guaranteed). Choosing healthy food options and a reasonable amount of exercise each day can help contribute to good health. Resting your body with a good nights sleep is also important. Other ways of taking care of your body include limiting the amount of alcohol you consume, removing cigarettes from your life and be conscious about drug use if this affects you. Alcohol, cigarettes and drugs may make your body more susceptible to infections because they may affect your immunity.

Another factor you may need to consider is exposing your body to risks by creating ways for infections to enter your body through your bloodstream. If you shave around your pubic area, including your scrotum, buttocks and around the base of the shaft of your penis, you could cut or nick yourself during the shaving or hair removal process, giving bodily fluids and viruses easier access to your body. This can also be an issue if you allow semen to enter your mouth. If you brush your teeth and damage your gums, they may bleed. An enema is a good idea to clean your insides before anal sex, but care needs to be taken to ensure that the cleansing process does not strip away the protective lining of the rectum. Genital piercings also need to be taken into consideration, as they could cause problems.

Checking out the equipment before proceeding
It’s a great idea to examine yourself for any signs of sexually transmitted infections or wounds which may expose you to any potential health risks. You are just as responsible for transmitting any viruses as the other guy, so it’s important to check things out close to home before venturing out. If you don’t see any signs of sexually transmitted infections, such as sores, rashes or other symptoms, then you need to check out the other guy before taking things further. Try to do this in the most casual way you can, because being clinical or psychotic about it won’t do anything to keep you in the mood.

A little something to help things go more smoothly
Choosing the right type of lubricant may be a very important factor, because you need to be aware that too much friction can cause flesh damage, such as a tear in the rectum. Too much lubricant can have the opposite affect, where things are so slippery that the sensation is reduced. Some lubricants now include ingredients which assist in relaxing the anal sphincter muscles to reduce the pain which can be associated with anal penetration. Water based lube is the most common type of lube, which can dry out after a while, so you may need to add some saliva to it, silicone based lube is a great choice for a consistently smooth experience and oil based lube (not condom friendly) can be very greasy and difficult to clean up after wards.

Pulling out before releasing the load
Some men may choose to limit their exposure to bodily fluid by pulling out before ejaculation takes place. This process may be somewhat effective, however, seminal fluid may also carry viruses. Some sexually transmitted infections don’t require bodily fluid – skin to skin contact is all that is sometimes needed for transmission to take place. If you choose this option, you need to be aware that it’s important for the top to pull out before he ejaculates, so a level of trust needs to be established. Remember that it’s easy to live in the moment and forget about withdrawing before the fluid begins to flow.

Choosing a partner with the same health status as you
Some men choose to only have sex with people who have the same health status as themselves. Both HIV negative and HIV positive men can do this in a process called serosorting. Serosorting involves both men establishing their own health status and maintaining the knowledge of their status to accurately remain having sexual contact with people of the same status. HIV negative men do this by only having sex with other HIV negative men and HIV positive men only ever have unprotected sex with other HIV positive men. This can be done for other sexually transmitted infections, but serosorting relies on honesty and pinpointing accurate health assessments, which can impact on its effectiveness and reliability.

Sometimes you just need to protect yourself
If you discover that either yourself or your potential sex partner has an issue with their health, then you may decide to forego your sexual encounter or choose a lower risk activity. Sometimes it’s best to avoid having sex to stay healthy rather than taking a risk for a few moments of pleasure. Another option is that you may choose to use a condom in some instances so that you can still have sex, but be better equipped to protect yourself in the event that a health concern is identified. This is something that needs to be considered on an individual level, as some barebackers completely avoid using condoms and they are not considered an option for some.

These are just some of the ways men can try to make bareback sex a safer experience. Of course the level of safety depends on each individual and also the precautions taken. It’s important to remember that you can be as careful as possible and still end up contracting a sexually transmitted infection. This is why men who choose to have bareback sex need to make an informed decision beforehand and be aware of the risks associated with bareback sex and be prepared for the consequences of possibly becoming infected by another person. Each of us is in control of our own actions, do only we can be held accountable for the choices we make.

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Why Men Choose To Have Bareback Sex

By Brad Berrigan on January 9th, 2010

There are a number of reasons why gay, bisexual and even straight men may choose to have unprotected anal sex with other men. This article will explore this topic in further detail, but the reason why each person engages in bareback sex will likely be different because of personal choices and situations. The term applied to men who have unprotected anal sex with men is referred to as “barebacking”, which according to Wikipedia is a slang term to describe acts of unprotected sex (sexual penetration without the use of a condom), which is an analogy to riding a horse without a saddle.

People who aren’t barebackers may wonder why men would engage in such a risky behavior when so much information is available online and in other forms of media about the importance of safer sex and the transmission of sexually transmitted infections. That is a reasonable question to ask, which unfortunately cannot be answered easily because barebacking can be a complicated issue to explore. The subject of bareback sex can be analyzed, where a few conclusions can be drawn about barebacking and why men may choose to risk their health by doing so.

Bareback sex is the riskiest form of sexual activity a person can have. Masturbation is regarded as the safest form of sex, but the risk increases with oral sex, followed by anal sex being at the riskier end of the scale, with anal sex without using a condom being the riskiest. There are ways to reduce (but not eliminate) the risk associated with barebacking and a future article will be discussing this. The following is an exploration into some of the benefits and drawbacks men may experience as a result of having anal sex without using a condom.

Bareback sex to some is known as natural sex, because two people are drawn together, where they experience sex without the use of synthetic devices developed to create a barrier (condom) between the participants. This barrier was designed to prevent the transmission of bodily fluids from one person to the other and also to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections. The barrier can also impact on the sensation of the sexual experience, as condoms can reduce the feeling of the friction when the penis is sliding inside and out of the anus during penetration.

Other reasons include the affect on intimacy and romance, where a condom can be seen as something which prevents two people from being close and intimate, which raises an awareness that the people having sex are afraid of each other and may not want to accept some parts of the other person during the experience. Condoms can sometimes be difficult to put on or may be prone to falling off if they are not used correctly and only certain lubricants can be used with condoms. Some men just don’t like the thought of reducing the pleasure they may be able to experience during sexual intercourse.

The risks associated with unprotected anal sex are high and there is a risk that the anus could tear during sex, which could expose a person to infections more easily, because of the open wound and bodily fluids having easier access to the other person. Sometimes if the bottom is not clean inside, there can also be an issue with sex being messy and smelly, so a little preparation may need to be done to ensure that the sex is as pleasant as possible. These are just some of the drawbacks bareback sex can bring.

There are a number of reasons why men may consider these risks and still have unprotected sex. Some men may be involved in a long term monogamous relationship, where a high level of trust has been established, along with good communication between the two. Barebacking in a monogamous relationship can be relatively safe; providing that both partners have been tested for sexually transmitted infections prior to engaging in sexual intercourse, are honest with each other and not indulging in any unsafe activities outside their sexual relationship.

Some men may have close friends whom they consider to be “fuck buddies”, where they don’t consider themselves to be in a relationship with the other man, yet they participate in sexual activities together. This feeling of trust may result in men feeling safer with this level of activity, but honesty is also a key component to this level of safety. If a person has a number of fuck buddies, then their exposure to possible risks will then also increase.

There are other men who may enjoy and live for the rush associated with risking their health by barebacking and dealing with the consequences at a later time. Some men may meet up with someone to have casual or anonymous unprotected sex with them and not know anything about the other person. There is a combination of factors as to whether a man considers barebacking to be a safe or an unsafe activity. Some men may just go with the flow of the moment and see where it takes them.

This is why barebacking is a complex issue, as men will have different reasons for not wanting to use protection. For some, the feeling of trusting someone so much by sharing their love can indicate the strength of their relationship to their partner. Condoms may be seen as preventing more than just sexually transmitted infections, so for some men in a long term or monogamous relationship, bareback sex can be seen as a sign of caring and commitment to the other person.

Condoms could be seen by some people as being unnatural, artificial or a reminder of disease. By putting on a condom, this could be seen that one man doesn’t want to get too close to the other man, or that he might be afraid of him. Some men may also associate condoms with disease. Condoms can block intimacy, trust, sensation and bodily fluids, which are a natural part of sexual intercourse. Having sex without a condom can be seen as a natural activity and the way in which sex was meant to be.

Some men also enjoy the sensation created through the friction of skin on skin contact and the concept at the time of ejaculation, where bodily fluids from one man are shifted to the other to bond their moment of pleasure together. This can be seen as intimacy, but it can also be viewed by others as a more sexually charged experience. It all depends on the individual as to how they interpret the orgasm.

There are some men who may not feel that they can love themselves enough, so they are not concerned about their health or well-being. This is a problem all around the world due to gay and bisexual men being frowned upon or made to feel guilty because they are gay or bisexual. Some men may feel that if they are regarded by some in society as being unimportant, then why not have unprotected sex and risk their health, especially if they have no regard for their own health or whether or not their partner has a sexually transmitted infection.

Some men may be HIV positive and feel that as they already have HIV, they are free to participate in unsafe sexual activities. It is important to remember that it may be possible to become reinfected with other strains of HIV or become exposed to other Sexually Transmitted Infections. For men who are HIV positive, they may choose to only have bareback sex with other men who are also HIV positive through a process called serosorting. Serosorting is a which in which some men attempt to reduce the spread of infections by limiting their exposure to men who have the same health status as themselves.

In conclusion, an important factor is to consider the way two men having unprotected sex are compared with a man and a woman having unprotected sex. People may believe that it is perfectly natural for a man and a woman to have unprotected sex, yet it is not okay for two men to have unprotected sex. There are also men and women who sleep around, it’s not just limited to gay and bisexual men. We all need to take a closer look at the way we interpret bareback sex, because homosexual men should not be judged differently for having unprotected sex when heterosexual men and women do exactly the same thing.